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Thinking and Feeling Positive Is Good For Health

Emotions Have Evolutionary Value

 

People all understand that negative emotions have an evolutionary value as these emotions are associated with some kind of experience – fear, loss, and attack – that signals the activation of your flight or fight response. Aversion is a typical result you will have after experiencing negative emotions. Aversion is a feeling that activates and set you in motion to identify what is wrong and remove it. Negative emotions has a close relation with behaviors and actions that are associated with a sensory alert that activates us to focus on “fight, flight or conserve.”

 

Positive emotions also have an evolutionary advantage. They “broaden and build.” Experiencing the good feelings of positive emotions increases your survival chances because positive emotions broaden your intellectual, physical, and social resources and build reserves for you to draw upon.

 

The presence of good feelings increases your drive for exploration and discovery and provides the basis for positive social interactions. When you experience positive emotions, you become more tolerant, expansive, and creative and the more open to new ideas and new experiences you become.

 

Negative emotions narrow a person’s perspective to deal only with the immediate threat. When negative emotions are experienced, your flight or fight response is activated and you withdraw, freeze, or protect. In contrast, when you experience positive emotions, you feel safe and engage in active, playful exploration, and discovery. Negative emotions contract and positive emotions expand.

 

Good feelings form the experiential foundation for mentally healthy people in that they provide a foundation for growth and exploration and build the intellectual, social and physical capital for further growth and development.

 

When you experience negative emotions, they tell you to focus on what is wrong and eliminate it. When you experience positive emotions, however, you start looking for the virtues of what is happening. You become constructive, generous, un-defensive, and open to seeing possibilities.

 

Experiencing good feelings makes available an entirely different way of thinking from a negative mood. A negative mood helps us detect threats in our environment and focus our attention on protection. A positive mood moves us into growth and development, exploration and discovery.

 

The Three Principles of Positive Emotions

 

1. Positive Emotions Build Resources and Capital for the Future

 

The first principle of positive emotion is that good felings build the resources and capital that will become the basis for growth and development in years to come. When positive emotions are experienced you will reach outward and broaden your resources by exploration and discovery. You’ll be more creative, think quicker, and not succumb to premature closure or other forms of superficial intellectual processing.

 

Depressed people experience what is called a “downward spiral” of negative emotions. Depressed emotions call forth negative memories that feed more negative thoughts, that feed more negative memories, that feed more depressed emotions. Breaking this downward spiral is crucial to stopping the depression.

 

Psychologists have found what they call an upward spiral of positive emotion – different way of thinking and acting. The thinking becomes creative and broad-minded, and the actions become adventurous and exploratory. This increased creativity and exploration results in greater expansion.

 

As good felings produce expansion, more successful interactions in the environment produce more useful information about the environment and a sense of greater mastery. These successful interactions in the environment and the greater sense of mastery result in the generation of more positive emotions. These increased good felings result in more exploration, creativity and discovery in even more areas of life as the sense of mastery from the successful interactions ripples outward.

 

2. Positive Emotions Create an Upward Spiral

 

This upward and outward spiral of good felings leads to the second principle of positive emotions: Augment positive emotions in your life and start an upward and outward spiral of even more good felings and thus more exploration, discovery, creativity, and insightful thinking and more success and mastery in life.

 

3. Positive Emotions are Important

 

The third principle of positive emotions is that they need to be taken as seriously as negative emotions. Often negative emotions are taken more seriously because they have been believed to be the evolutionary backbone of human motivation. It was believed that people are motivated primarily to avoid experiencing negative emotions and that positive motivation was merely superficial.

 

Positive emotions are just as real, authentic, and important as negative emotions and equally important for evolutionary development, growth, and success in the world.

 

Positive Emotions Are Associated with More Successful Interactions in the World

 

Experiencing positive emotions brings more successful interactions with the world. Developing the art and skill of experiencing them will build more friendships, stronger love, better physical health, and more mastery and successful interactions in the world. Growth, positive development, and creative and successful interactions in the world (i.e. mental health) may have their foundations in the experience of positive emotions.

 

Happy People Are More Effective and Successful in the World

 

Happy people view themselves as more successful in the world. Happy people think that they have more skill than others think they do. Happy people remember more good events than actually happened and forget more of the bad events that happened Happy people see success as lasting, personal and pervasive and failure as impersonal, temporary and specific.

 

Happy people may lose a bit of realism but this does not lock them into ineffective functioning. Happy people are more likely to switch tactics when involved in a task that appears to be failing In the normal course of events, happy people rely on their tried and true positive past experiences while less happy people are more skeptical. However, when events are threatening, happy people, more readily than less happy people, switch tactics and adopt a skeptical and analytical frame of mind. Happy people seem to deal better with adversity.

 

Happier people are markedly more satisfied with their jobs than less happy people. More happiness actually causes more productivity and results in higher income. Happiness also makes gainful employment and higher income more likely. Adults and children who are put in a good mood select higher goals, perform better, and persist longer on a variety of laboratory tasks, such as solving anagrams.

Happy People Are Healthier

 

Positive emotions result in better physical health. Happy people spend more time playing. Playing has distinct survival benefits and is associated with greater creativity, muscle, and cardiovascular fitness. Good felings also predict health and longevity and protect people from the wear and tear of aging and strongly predict who lives longer, who dies earlier and who will become disabled. Happy people seek out and make use of more health risk information. Happy people have better health habits, lower blood pressure, and stronger immune systems than less happy people. They endure pain better and take more health and safety precautions when threatened. Positive emotions are a “prolonger of life and improver of health.”

 

Happy People Are More Connected With Others

 

The expression of good felings results in more secure relationships. Very happy people differ markedly from average people and from unhappy people in one principle way – a rich and fulfilling social life. Happy people have more close and casual friends, are more likely to be married, and are more involved in group activities than unhappy people. Happy people are also more altruistic. When we are in a good mood we are less focused on ourselves, we like others more and we want to be kinder and share our good fortune more with others. However, when we are experiencing negative emotions we become distrustful, turn inward and become defensive about our own needs.

 

Focusing on the Positive

 

Positive emotions undo negative emotions and reduce the negative physical and psychological stresses of negative experiences. Negative emotions tell you that you are facing a win-loss encounter and need to take steps to engage with the obstacles. Positive emotions tell you that you are in a potential win-win situation and guide you to be more expansive, tolerant, and creative so that you can maximize the social, intellectual, and physical benefits of the situation.

 

It is important to generate and build the experience of positive affective states rather than simply extinguishing negative emotions. Positive affective states become the fuel and the raw material for experiencing more growth and development, more exploration and discovery, more mastery and successful interactions in the world, and building, developing, using and leveraging our strengths.

 

You can dedicate this month to recognizing the importance of building a core motion towards happiness. You will broaden, build and become more successful in your world (whatever success means for you). Seek to align yourself with the wisdom expressed by the Dali Lama –

“I believe that the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness.
That is clear.
Whether one believes in religion or not, whether one believes in this religion or that religion, we are all seeking something better in life.
So I think, the very motion of our life is towards happiness” –Dali Lama

 

Are You Experiencing Positive Emotions?

Do you begin and end each day feeling excited and grateful?

Do you experience moments of pleasure throughout the day?

Do you experience gratification in the life you live and the work you are doing?

Is it easy for you to write down 5 things you appreciate about your day?

Do you feel like you are “in flow” for some parts of every day?

Do you believe that the “very motion of your life is towards happiness”?

If you answered “no” to any of the above, try taking steps to develop more of the good felings of positive emotions in your life.

 

Mary Ann Copson is a Mood and Brain Chemistry expert. She can determine your neurotransmitter profile and help you bring your brain chemistry back into balance with nutritional and wellness, dietary, herbal, supplement, lifestyle, and personal foundations recommendations. Moods, Neurotransmitters and Brain Chemistry

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What is Your Favorite Positive Feeling?

What is your favorite positive feeling? These days, I think I will take contentment, and a sense of quiet pride.

And that feeling comes from looking back over the last 30 years at the effective choices of my life, choices that did entail hard work, but paid off.

I did not always take the easier, softer way, sometimes I took the road less traveled, and made it through.

I have learned a great deal about the inside of me, and how I operate emotionally.

While I am feeling content at this moment, all I need to do to create a feeling of shame is remember some crazy episode from my youth, or even as a parent and I can change the feeling of contentment to one of embarassment or even shame, over a memory where my emotions were too strong for what the child had done.

The very cool thing that I have learned is that I can change my thought to change my feeling.

I can remember what it was like to finish my last final exam in graduate school, get the grade of A, know that I had successfully completed, the first in my family to have a graduate degree, and re-experience that marvelous moment all over again. That night I took a good long time to stroll around the campus at Illinois State University where my journey began some 30 years previously just to take it all in, and to say goodbye. It is a bittersweet feeling, and that moment happened over 13 years ago.

So when I am feeling helpless or resentful or ashamed, I can remember that moment of transcendence for both me and my family, for no other reason than to have my positive feeling back.

That is what my memories will do for me.

Change the thought to change the feeling.

You can go back further if you want, to a moment of excellence as a child, if you want to change the thought to change the feeling.

I can remember any number of moments in Little League baseball for example, and re-experience the sense of efficacy I had as a little boy, especially when I got the double off my buddy Chuck Helling, who pitched for the Dodgers.

In fact, it is very healthy for me to have that kind of chemistry in my body, so why not practice cognitive skills that allow me to have a quiet sense of pride in my ability to problem solve, not to be grandiose, but to be healthy. What I mean is that changing the thought to change the negative feeling to a positive feeling changes stress hormones that I have now, in my body, because the memory is now, to DHEA, the anti-aging hormone.

There are a lot of tools available today that can help me practice positive feelings heart beat by heart beat if I want to, and the one I have used for the last nine years, both personally and professionally is a heart rate variability biofeedback tool.

If I want to get really sophisticated with heart rate variability biofeedback, I can manage my feelings literally heart beat by heart beat from now until my heart stops.

It turns out the heart has a rather sophisticated nervous system all of its own, which can learn and make decisions independently of any other brain I have.

And I can train that brain with biofeedback so that I can access that cooperative and affiliative heart intelligence whenever I want, and my heart will then regulate its coherence for me.

Coherence refers to the time between heart beats and when I regulate that, my entire body, every cell impacted by the pneumatic and electromagnetic activity of my heart (all your cells) begins to dance to the same beat, like your body vibrates to the bass line in your favorite rock and roll anthem.

This is an easy skill to learn using heart rate variability biofeedback on my computer, and once I have learned it, I no longer need the computer, I can cue the physiology with a cue thought that I created in my practice.

For example, I think of my children’s faces, and that image does not have to be very detailed, and I place them inside the volume of my chest, next to my heart, and I can feel the love there, and I can create that thought anytime I want a positive feeling, perhaps every five minutes for two heart beats.

Remember, changing the thought to change the feelings happens really quickly.

I can create either a positive or negative feeling in 1/18th second, which is why I think it is important to practice regular positive feeling.

As I do my heart rate variability biofeedback and my heart learns that it is to be coherent when I remember my cue thought, the process internally gets very fast. In fact my body does not like to get too far away from coherence after awhile, and gently reminds me with some discomfort.

And the feeling is a very positive feeling.

Heart rate variability also helps me open the higher perceptual centers in my brain, which is a good thing for the brain fitness capacities recently discovered called neuroplasticity and neurogenesis.

Our brains actually grow new brain cells daily, but does not keep them unless they are given a novel learning challenge, like learning a new language, or a new instrument, or by practicing computerized brain fitness programs. That is neurogenesis.Too frequent doses of stress hormones or poisons like ethyl alcohol block neurogenesis.

Neuroplasticity is the word used to describe the efforts made by my neurons to connect with other neurons to cement new learning.

The more connections I have the better I am able to ward off alzheimers disease.

However, the co-authors of Brainfit for Life Simon Evans,Ph.D. and Paul Burghardt,Ph.D., report that those neuroplastic connections are evaluated during your sleep each night and decisions are made about which connection to keep and which to delete, so do not skimp on your sleep, which impacts your positive feelings too.

Practice Positive Feelings

The practice of positive feelings involves cognitive and physiological components.

I can manage my thoughts to feel positively, I can manage my physiology and thoughts to feel positively, and I can encourage brain fitness which enhances positive feelings.

And I can do it a lot.

Michael S. Logan is a brain fitness expert, a counselor, a student of Chi Gong, and licensed one on one HeartMath provider. I enjoy the spiritual, the mythological, and psychological, and I am a late life father to Shane, 10, and Hannah Marie, 4, whose brains are so amazing. http://www.askmikethecounselor2.com


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